It used to be that we just “spent too much, ” or that we couldn’t “stick to a budget.” Today, in a world where the list of “-oholisms” seems to get longer every day, we are told that compulsive spending can be a sign of larger emotional issues.
Between 2 and 5 percent of Americans have some form of shopping addiction, which means they struggle to control their purchases. It can lead to debt, damaged relationships, and might even be related to depression. US News Money
The bright side (I guess) of turning everything into a disease is that it draws attention to the problem. The eggheads study it, identify symptoms and suggest ways to deal with it. And it tells those affected that they aren’t alone. So here is a brief list of behaviors that might point to a compulsive shopping problem:
- You lie about your purchases.
- You don’t talk openly about your shopping habits.
- Your shopping habits are hurting your relationships.
- You usually shop alone.
- You think of shopping as a hobby.
- You shop to feel better about yourself.
- You feel a rush of euphoria when making purchases.
- Your shopping habits are interfering with your life.
- You use credit cards to finance your purchases.
- You don’t know where your money is going.
I guess, like anything else, one or two of these behaviors might not be a problem. Five or six may be a different story.
And don’t get me wrong – this can be serious. I may not agree with turning everything into a disease, but wrecking relationships and going bankrupt are real things – things that you, like, want to AVOID. So, check out the original article for more details, and see if you notice these behaviors in yourself or others. And have a great weekend!
2 thoughts on “Tough Love for Shopaholics”
I sure has applied to me as far as shopping online. I have to stay out of store where I have credit cards.
I enjoy shopping and I get good deals to I look for a good percentage off and I like also when you get a polite sales person that means a lot to me well I will talk tou you all later I’m on my way to shopping. Again
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